I have read all the posts (alllll the posts) and have thus far not commented except to post my experience which was very good in my case. I think it should be noted though that most people who sell here do so on a voluntry amateur basis, collecting seed from the wild. I gather you have lost a couple hundred dollars or so. I commiserate, however keep in mind that there is such a thing called buyer beware, in the last 12 months I've spent $3000-$3500 US on seed through forum members. Most have been great but i have still lost seed to postal, customs, seed quality issues etc, this is to be expected in this hobby . As i read it he did try to make good once to no avail and you have since got some money back so your losses are minimal. There are other sources for this seed listed so there is no reason you have to deal with him again for this or other seeds not that he would sell to you again anyway id suggest. I get the feeling you expect a sure thing with regard to seeds you buy and that just wont happen. Furthermore i doubt a lawyer will do you much good as its across international borders with no reciprocal legal recognition, its a hobbyist not a professional, and you instructed him to send fruits not seeds in medium which as oscar pointed out is illegal so you might end up in more trouble than its worth. Sadly by continuing to hound this argument, what you are doing now is making the smaller amatuer sellers think long and hard before they deal with you and probably forum members in general. The bigger guys wont care but in the long run everyone will lose out. Call it a learning curve and move on. By the way forgiveness doesnt come with strings attached, unless your in the mafia then its called blackmail. If you do forgive him thats great ask the moderators to lock this and thats the end of it. If you don't then at least don't pretend it does you no favours.