Durian are highly unlikely to be compatable with matisia as they are getting too distant from each other genetically.It would be like crossing a kangaroo with a sheep to come up with a woolly jumper.Phytophthora resistant rootstock of other Durio sp. is the best bet.Like avos bad drainage is the biggest risk factor.Also like avos only 1 fungicide (tonic really) seems to help ie phosacid or mono di potassium phosphite.
I'm afraid that Mike T is right Sheehan, though with his comparison in animal kingdom he's given to a bit of exaggeration!
Keep in mind that durian is NOT easy to graft even onto itself, so grafting onto another genus would be more than difficult. I think Mike T is correct and another species of durian or even another cultivar of zibethinus would be best bet to give them phytophora resistance. Phytophora is also the main scourge of durians here also. I've had about a dozen nice looking big trees die on me already.
In Thailand the common remedy is to dump tons of fungicides into the soil. Thai farmers are not at all shy about using lots and LOTS of chemicals at very stage of growing and even post harvest. That's something to keep in mind when considering buying those frozen durians from Thailand. A fellow here just told me he got very ill after eating a frozen durian and asked me what it could have possibly had inside the fruit that made him so sick?