Hence i will give her another tree then, 2$ is worth trying.
Definitely keep trying!
Well my wife says she has never seen durian in Lopburi so also she doesn't believe it is possible. That is Thai thinking.
I completely agree with you here. I get this same thing from my wife's parents. Just because they know of no one growing it in a particular spot, they believe it cannot be grown there. If we all took that attitude, many of us would be out of a hobby! It just may need more work and care.
The last bit of land we had well outside Bangkok supported most everything I wanted to grow except for the two durian we planted. The soil sucked for the most part and at the time, had no tools or ammendments to try to improve. Not having someone around to care for them didn't help matters. Their conclusion? Can't grow durian there. Since the flood, we've sold this land and looking for something else. Unfortunately, nobody but me is showing any enthusiasm for this. My wife keeps asking why I would need to grow these trees when I could get them so easily from the markets. Sigh...
Right Jay, they give up very easy and if other people say something is impossible then it is impossible to them, don;t have to try no more.
It also is hard to learn them something new like adding mulch on the soil because it really works. But now that i have showed them many impossible things like cocktail-tree's of many plants i get big respect like if i am a magician. Also the fact that they buy tomato's and papaya's from Holland these days (and i am dutch) gives me extra respect haha. Dutch people can do miracles with plants.
Anyway believe in yourself and the expertise of the forummembers and just try, trees are cheap so just give it a go. A good big flowerpot costs 10x more then the tree.
I hope you find your high land soon and will help me convincing the Thai that it is possible to grow more. If my house gets into a flooding again i will loose many tree's but that's life. I m sure your Thai lady will like your fruits when she can eat them. My wife also says we can buy all on the market easy but that's why i want to have special variaty's that they don't sell on the market.