Thank you for your replies,
it makes sense to take it easy on the plant especially if you completely beheaded it. After grafting, I tend to leave them alone and wait for some real growth to show. I fertilize on the 1rst of each month to help me remember, I also tend to under fert but do it more often. Except for my bananas and guavas which get lots of fert (bananas get 1rst and 15th).
-Ethan