I can't help, but I'm searching too for a solution: i have a similar problem with Corsican citrons. Bought it two years ago, no growth: just flowers. Of course, since the plants are really small, they drop as soon as they finish the flowering, but they aren't followed by growth flush. I water and fertilize them as any other citrus. Next spring, same behavior.
You have given me an idea, actually: my plants are rooted cutting in a big pot. Maybe the pot size may have some role in this? Common sense would suggest "no"; but this is the most obvious thing our plant have in common.