In the 11 years I've had guava trees, I have yet to have edible fruit.
Either the little fruitlets fall off, the tree gets infested with scale, the fruit is tasteless, or the fruit is attacked by fruit fly.
I don't think commercial growers are bagging every fertilized flower or spraying constantly. What are they doing to make so many fruits and jams available? Growing them underground? :-)
I am in SW Florida maybe a zon warmer than you. Guava needs to be very vigorously growing, healthy plants, well fed and well watered. They fruit on new wood, yes you may get some scale, I do but most of it brushes off, and I have to bag every fruit or it would be infested with fruit fly. This summer I had many flowers and fruitlets fall off, I think the problem was lack of fertilization, the plants are real fertility and water hogs.
After my spring/summer crop, and I did get some good ones, I pruned back hard mainly to develop a good framework because these trees were just one year old air layers. The trees did continue to bloom sporadically and I did get some through the summer and they are still ripening. I am emulating commercial growers who are prunng to an open vase form with main branches about 4 feet and new fruit bearing branches easily within reach for bagging and picking. The trigger time for best fruit bearing seems to be when cooler temperatures change to warmer weather, maybe March, April, or May. It seem to me this will be the main crop time.
So, sometime this winter, probably February, I will fertilize, mulch, prune and water heavily to bring on the bloom flush. I have the bags ready. My experience last year was that I put bags on immediately after pollination(I saw plenty of bee activity). Quite a few fruits failed to hold, the small fruitlets fell off. I think I will wait until fruit gets about 1/2 size to bag them. I believe that the bags may have held dew during foggy mornings in springtime and caused fungal infection leading to the fruit drop.
Here is an interesting video showing a commercial operation in Colombia, in Spanish but you can auto-translate or jst observe carefully how they are pruning. They aren't bagging but may be spraying or just tolerating fruit fly for juice production.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=epk8R4HsYUg