The stuff they sell at the store for landscaping is maybe too coarse because they screen it and get it extra chunky, its more like gravel. You want the native soil that has coarse stuff but also a little loam in it.
You can go with organic potting mix too. I dont want to lead you down the wrong path. The DG doesn't break down over time, its just an anchor for the plant that drains well. It isn't rich soil so you need to fertilize it if you go that direction. When you put in a permanent plant like DF, you don't want spent potting mix 3 years later. Its not like a vegetable garden you can till up and ammend later. Having a mineral soil that doesn't decompose will be good long term.
Thats just my take on it, theres certainly a lot of people using bagged forest product for DF out there. You probably get lots of opinions if you ask on the Facebook DF group.