If you have rock it needs special treatment but since this is a house lot you may have some unusual fill dirt maybe even fill rock. Some places add fill which is special stuff which compacts for a stable foundation and may include some clay. I am building and they use this under the foundation plus compacted it with a 19 ton vibrating 'steam roller' which packed it very tight. You need to get a post hole digger and go down about 2 feet to actually see your soil profile. You might ask around folks who were there when houses were built and check who has had success to emulate what they did. Just because one tree died doesn't mean it was a soil problem, could have been aftercare or even drainage issues.
On a house lot a mixture of uncut grasses and weeds may not be easy to achieve.
Organics are great and I use them plus a diversity of companion pants and legumes but I highly recommend starting with a full slow release total fertilizer with micronutrients. The one I use is called Nutricote Total.
I put a double handful directly in the hole before planting. DO NOT do this with ordinary fertilizer. However, this one is 100% slow release and lasts through the rainy season for six months. I think the benefit is that the fertilizer is directly under the roots and slowly released with no chance of washout or burning. I have planted seeds directly on top of a spoonful of this fert, it does not burn. It is very popular with the nursery trade. I do not see permanent harm using synthetic fertilizer and have observed good soil microbiology and legume nodulation on soil which has had this fertilizer added.Best of all I have never had any nutrient deficiency symptoms
https://www.arysta-na.com/Nutricote/files/NUT_18-6-8_PIS.pdf