So the trick is you have to check the WHOLE stone, so I wouldn't be able to guess, from a single angle, whether your seed is male or female. I have found that sometimes you can scrape the stone to make the eyes easier to see.
Each eye has a darker center, a slightly paler edge, and then a fine line, which is where you would place a knife blade to pry the eye out. The eyes are NOT perfectly round. They may be roundish, or more oblong.
Also, if you planted some in soil, and they have NOT germinated yet, just dig them up, scrape them off with a sharp pocket knife, then pry the lids off the eyes. Then you will know for sure if they are make or female, and which eyes are "good". I planted some on July 12 of this year, and the trees are over a foot tall. Will post shortly.
Hope this helps!
In this picture, you can three eyes. One on each point of the stone.
Here is another angle, where you can see two eyes. You can also see the knife marks where I have cleaned the stone to find the eyes.
Another angle.
The last angle, where I discovered that this stone actually has FOUR eyes. The fourth eye was very hard to see with my eyes, but it showed up on the photo. The eye on the left is more oblong, the eye on the right is more round, and the eyes are almost touching each other.