haha welcome to the club. Despite growing on calcareous soil, I still have a major problem with uneven ripening of OS. Though when picked early, they should ripen normally.
I'm sure there is a way to mitigate the soft nose / jelly seed issue, but I haven't quite found it yet.
Soil water retention might be a factor (ie, high rain plus poorly draining soil might exacerbate the condition).
Can anyone help with this? My orange sherbet mangoes are not ripening properly. No matter what they have a huge jelly seed. I've tried picking them earlier and not leaving them on the tree to ripen, and opening them earlier, and still the jelly seed. This is the first year the tree produced a lot of fruit. Last year I got a few fruit and I don't remember them having this problem.