HAHA There is a subtle difference though. Though both sexes accumulate things, women do so for the end purpose of using them, while the men collect just for the sake of having. One is a focus on the end, and the other is a focus on the means.
A baseball card, for example, has no intrinsic value. It's a piece of cardboard with some ink on it that probably costs a fraction of a penny to produce. It cannot be eaten, it cannot provide shelter (for anything other than small rodents and insects), and it makes a poor substitute for clothing. A collection of shoes, on the other hand, is for the express purpose of wearing.
So, yes, women will amass collections of fruit trees, but most often they are doing so to actually eat the fruit day in and day out. However, a good percentage of hobbyist fruit growing men that I've interacted with have nothing more than a passing interest in the fruit and are more interested in the novelty of owning a new and rare plant.