Welcome to the forum Shaneatwell! I also live in San Diego and I have a few mango varieties in my backyard. I currently have Maha Chanok, lemon zest, glenn, manilla, nam doc Mai, and Alphonso. I have yet to taste a single mango from any of my trees. I have been removing the fruit from all my mango trees for the last two years and my trees are still relatively small. I also grow Lychees, Longan, dragonfruit, Cherimoya, atemoya, figs, pomegranates, Asian pears, avocado, loquat, miracle fruit and a few other things. Ongs nursery is a good place to acquire some trees locally.
Simon