She has a great website and sure is living the dream:)
I saw this on her website earlier in the year and have never wished I had enough money for something more 
Trying currently to convince my fiancee that a durian tour like this will be an awesome honeymoon next year
but imagine she ends up hating durian!
I'm a durian virgin too but iv never met a taste I found offensive and i know deep in my soul I will love them 
Durian has quite a few compounds and flavors in it, as such, both the smell and the taste can be very offensive to some, and pleasing or only mildly pungent to others. I really think it's just a matter of genetics (both the plant and your own), and less to do with just can you force yourself to like it or not.
Other fruits I've tried never compare. I ended up really liking Durian, but even in Malaysia, it's a love it or hate it fruit.
I would really encourage you both to see if you can find someone who likes it, and can help you pick out a good frozen fruit to try. At least see what you think before taking a trip just for Durian. But if you love it, the trip will be worth it!