your post is concurrent with what has happened for last 5 yrs here in Central FL...have seen A reticulata turn to a stump, and A. squamosa live almost like a damn guava...
A. reticulata takes too long to fruit from seed, and becomes too large of a tree...also being too cold sensitive...
A. squamosa fruits in 3yrs from seed at only 2.5ft tall, and can handle 28 no problems...I see them all over town...but see no reticulata. Wish I did!
I've been all over Orlando and seen only a few up here...Larry had one, at Our Kids Nursery, in Winter Garden (stump, but alive), and a buddy of mine Lincoln has one (massive stump, coming back with suckers all over, now 10ft). Larry's never grew large enough to fruit, but Lincoln fruited his before those two wicked freezes we had around 3 or 4 yrs back...ever since they keep getting stumped...but all A. squamosa and atemoyas did fine! all over town.
I have a hybrid reticulata, that seems much more cold tolerant than regular reticulata. Fruits are said to be yellow/green and taste amazing. I hope to have fruits later this year, or next year! I keep u posted!