Wow, thank you so much for pointing out this thread. My experience matches exactly... plants are in a greenhouse (glazing blocks UV entirely), it has been overcast and wet for a week, and only ilama affected not other annonas.
I guess I can try moving the container/grafted one outside the greenhouse during the day. I can't move the in-ground one, it might end up that it is impossible to grow ilama in a greenhouse because of UV requirements! That would be unusual, never heard of such a thing