The plant on the the left, is that a whip and tongue at the bottom of your graft?
no, that's the curvy base of the cherimoya. the graft starts just above the curvy base and goes to just below the leaves.
haha words are hard. i was going to be 100% unlazy and show you from scratch, but then i decided to be 10% unlazy and show you some closer pics. here are a couple mango seedlings in separate pots...

left is champagne, right is palmer. both are growing, and i plan to let them continue growing at least until i can try the fruit.
here are a couple myricas in the same pot...

left is myrica californica, right is myrica cerifera. now i just need to add myrica rubra. once i add rubra i'm not sure if i'd remove the tops of californica or cerifera, even though neither is edible, given that both might be able to pollinate rubra.
on youtube i've watched a ton of grafting videos involving seedlings, and not once have any of the grafters mentioned the possibility that a seedling being used as a rootstock might have produced better fruit than the scion. it's a fact though that any given superior variety only exists because it wasn't used as a rootstock.
a seedling is used as a rootstock for a superior variety, which only exists because it wasn't used as a rootstock.
anyways, i grafted the myricas and mangos while they were potted, which was tricky. i think it's easier to do the grafting bareroot.
i don't know what the optimal length graft is. it seems like a longer graft makes it easier for the plants to communicate and exchange resources.