I've been battling spidermites for a month or so on my kumquat, and I think I need a change in strategy.
I've been using this product, which is labelled for controlling mites. It doesn't seem to kill them. i've been spraying weekly, with little reduction in number. Yesterday I bagged the tree, completely soaked it sealed the bag for 24 hours, followed by a high pressure washing of all the leaves.

I still found some live mites under the microscope.

Do you all have any recommendations for products or techniques that work?