Tons of good info in here! Y'all are going to make me broke with all these suggestions

One of my potted tropicals is a Glenn Mango in a 25G pot. It has been bearing fruit for a few years. It has been about 7' tall for the past few years so I think that's the max with pruning.
That's surprising to hear it stayed so small even in such a large pot, and super helpful to hear. I'll probably keep mine in a 15 gallon since I have a bunch of those on hand. I just ordered myself a Glenn and a Carrie mango and I'm psyched for them!
Welcome!
I am in zone 6 and have 64 species of tropical plants in my greenhouse. Sitting out there having coffee right now, in fact. I started out like you, moving things in and out every year but it killed me. Those big pots are heavy! Wound up with golfers elbow and tennis elbow in both arms. Couldn't even lift a pen or a coffee cup for months.
So, thoughts -
1 - Most anything can be grown in pots with the right care. So go wild.
2 - Get a really good pot dolly.
3 - Then give up and build a greenhouse...
Hah! I'm definitely on that path. I've got another 2-3 years before I can get another property and space for a south-facing greenhouse is a top priority, so I'm sure it'll happen eventually. Your greenhouse looks like a literal dream of mine!
I have many very successful eugenia in pots. I don't think you can go wrong with any of them.
Nice! I have a Eugenia selloi on the way that I'm excited for. Any other particular Eugenia that you'd recommend flavor wise? I was looking at the Surinam Cherry but its description as having a "bell pepper" like taste isn't super appealing to me, though I'm going to try one whenever I get the chance to see if it'll change my mind.
What about Jaboticaba? I knew a guy in Indiana who had one for years. A few more that meet the hardiness requirement but might require pruning are Loquat, Pomegranate, Fig, and some of the high quality mulberries.
I have over 15 fig varieties lining my driveway in pots

They'll be getting pulled into the garage once they go dormant.
I'm holding out on a pomegranite until I can get my hands on one of the super hardy varieties that aren't really commercially available yet as they're supposed to do just fine in my zone (Ideally Belbek, but also stoked on Uzbek or Bulgrian 1 or 3).
I have a Silk Hope mulberry I planted this year in my yard, with hopes of eventually planting a Pakistani mulberry (have had multiple reports of this surviving just fine in zone 6 if ordered from the right nursery, despite many people claiming it won't). Definitely going to graft some varieties, too.
Welcome! Glad to see another temperate grower join the forum.
Lots of good points have been made in this thread.
I see a definite difference between your experience container growing in Asheville, up in the mountains, zone 7a at the cusp of being 6b; and my experience in North Alabama, in relative lowlands, and solidly in 7b. I keep my container plants outside seven months, sometimes longer, but I bring them in before the nightly lows drop below 40°. I would be getting close to nine months of outside time for them if I let them experience nights in the 20s. I would be experiencing some dead plants, though, since I do not think everything in my collection would be happy with such exposure.
Needless to say, plants and their root balls get heavier as they mature. A good plant dolly and a good back are essentials. I usually cart shorter plants into my basement in a wheelbarrow.
I am also surprised jaboticabas were not mentioned immediately. They have compact growth habits, can stay in containers long-term, and handle temperatures into the 20s (as long as the exposure is brief). Varieties like red and escarlate fruit quickly and at small sizes. If you baby them in the winter and do not expose them to cold temperatures, you may even be able to get a winter crop since they fruit multiple times per year.
Some Eugenia species, such as Eugenia selloi (Pitangatuba), are excellent for container growing.
vnomonee has a good Passiflora growing method for those of us in temperate regions trying to grow something other than maypops, which I have in my yard but now consider too insipid for anything other than ornamental growth and caterpillar food. I have been experimenting with other methods of getting edulis crops in my location, but so far, no luck.
Sugar apple (Annona squamosa) is probably the best Annona for container growing. People have fruited them in containers as small as 3 gallons. I selected seedlings with natural branching and shrubby growth habits. That has, so far, worked to keep mine small.
I find that the thorns are not the issue with container growing dragon fruit, it is the staking/trellising, particularly moving them in and out without disrupting that staking/trellising. That is my issue with dragon fruit.
Lemons are an excellent container citrus. People have been growing them that way in temperate areas of the US since before anyone here was born. One of my great-grandmothers had a lemon she dragged in and out of her garage as conditions required. Kumquats (and the various hybrid-quats) and finger limes are also good container citrus. When it comes to citrus, watch out for spider mites, my greatest nemesis.
Very good advice on the temperature. I'm going to start bringing my things in when temperatures start dipping below 40s after hearing what vnomonee mentioned about the exposed root balls. Knowing this I'm suddenly a lot more motivated to put in a very tiny basic greenhouse so I can keep the more sensitive plants out a little longer, something like a 6 x 10, which is about all the room I can really spare for one.
Got a pitangatuba on the way! Thinking I might order an escarlate tonight, I've been really curious about them.
Interesting to hear your thoughts on the maypop. I have a fence I'm getting replaced and plan to put some maypop out to climb it once that's done. Was going to try the one from Peaceful Heritage since they boast that it's much better tasting than most. They're so cheap I'll still try them out, and if I don't like them I'll find a replacement.
Sounds like I'll have to experiment with Annonas after all

I'll see about starting some seedlings next month or so. I'll probably leave dragon fruit for next year with all that I'm putting on my plate for now.