Cory, that's a pretty clear story that is very relevant and you have the receipts. My main point (if not obvious by now) is posting all of it here does little good. No potential buyers are going to see this thread when it falls off the first page. You want people to know the problems/issues/failures, put it where they are most likely to see them. I've bought from several sellers on here, my process was to read over the entire sales thread (most sellers use the same thread year over year) and read other's experiences, especially how the seller deals with lost/incomplete orders. Put everything you posted here there, and if Oscar makes it right (sending you the missing seeds), post that there, too.
We both seem to agree on my other point. There's a difference between calling someone a bad businessman vs a thief. If the title of this thread was "BAD BUSINESSMEN IN THE COMMUNITY" I don't think there'd be nearly as much of an issue with it. I may come across as defending Oscar, but what I'm defending him from is being labeled a thief. A thief steals with purpose and tries to escape before they are caught. People may still choose to deal with a bad businessman (especially if they have something no one else can offer), but nobody in their right mind deals with a thief. That's a dangerous label to put on a person; in fact it's libelous. Calling a business (person) a thief on a public forum is not smart, especially if you don't have the hard receipts to prove it; a simple google search on the legality/liability of posting such a claim should make that clear.