Is it okay to use river sand that contains bits of seashells? Or can this be too much calcium?
The rate of adding super fine Ag Lime and Dolomite Lime to Peat based and Coir based pot mix is 1kg to 2 kg of each per cubic metre, when mixing the pot mix.
This is to adjust the pH and supply Ca and Mg for a long period.
This is very fine ground powder, with a fast release rate for Calciim and Magnesium.
Intact shell and large pieces are going to be much slower acting.
Really it depends on the % of shell in the sand, the pH of the pot mix, and any other Calcium fertilisers, and the Calcium in your water supply all adding up to total Calcium.
You could probably sieve a sample of the sand and work out the % of shells.
Unless the % shells is high, it probably won't make much difference.
Do you have water snails etc in your Rivers ?
We get a few shells in our riversand, snail and mussel, but never that much.
Edit. possibly the most important factor is the % of sand you are using in the pot mix.
If you are using a large % of sand, the shells will factor more.
If you are using low % sand, ( say 2 to 5 % ), the shells will be less in the total pot mix, and will have less effect.