I think both weather variation and microclimates could have something to do with the different results seen in your plants. I would be interested to see where each of you planted your longipetiolatums, how long they were exposed to freezing temperatures per night, how much wind there was, and how much winter precipitation you had. All of these things can affect a plant just on the edge of making through a cold night. There are just so many variables.
Very true. I think one benefit here in the PNW is we never have warm weather in winter, so to the extent any particular plant is protected by "dormancy," everything is usually fully dormant for our freezes.
Here's a temperature chart for my yard for last winter, the one that killed one
longipetiolatum seedling and not the other, and both of them were in pretty good shape prior to the December freeze:

Here's the same period this winter, and once again they looked mostly ok until the late December freeze:

This zooms in on the colder of the two freeze events they survived in November:

In terms of precipitation, this is the Pacific NW... it's always soggy in winter, occasionally snowy or sleety. But never dry preceding a freeze like that, usually snowy.