Thanks all. Luc...started off with 5 plants. 2 were obviously male only so got rid of one thinking I would keep one male for pollination. 2 others turned out to be male with one undecided. It ended up putting out one fruit that aborted so this plant was my keeper. Got rid of another male too. Adam sent me a bunch of female and hermie scions and I grafted them onto the remaining plants with good take. One of the males puts out blooms like crazy. The female only put out a few this round but hope it gets better. It could be hermie because the male blooms weren't quite ready.
All the above trouble may turn out to be a waste if I'm not happy with the fruit. I don't have the space for an ornamental. I sort of remember the male putting out flowers more than once. Does the female do this too?? If the first fruit is not up to par, I will wait for the second fruiting to determine the plant's fate.