Use sulfur to get rid of powdery mildew. However, there is a caveat: sulfur should not be used when temps are above, say, mid to low 80's, as it can burn -- meaning no sulfur application after the temps start to warm up in early April.
The leaf notching is caused by sri lankan weevil, which should be controlled when in the grub stage. I've been told that Talstar (soil application) works.
The old vs new bark looks like the tree might have been severely cut back / busted up from high wind.
If the tree is not producing any fruit at all, it could be due to the powdery mildew or an abundance of male flowers. Mangoes will generally produce acceptably without fertilization.