1) The recommendations I give are the things I do. I am an amateur and only have the experience I have gained managing my own yard.
- Apply granular sulfur, Rocket 90, 400lbs per acre per application. Apply every 6 months
- Based on the results and the recommendations, calculate the difference between what you have and the bottom of the good range. Plan your fert schedule and add the ppms to see where you will end up. I just do simple addition and do not worry about leaching or uptake or anything else to keep things simple. Fill the gaps with additional broad or element specific ferts. To convert from pounds of fertilizer to parts per million, I use the formula: pounds multiplied by the percent of the element divided by 2 divided by the number of acres. As an example, ppms for potassium for 200 lbs of 8-2-12 applied to 0.5 acres is 200 * 0.12 / 2 / 0.5 = 24ppm of potassium. Phosphorus for the same example would be 200 * 0.02 / 2 / 0.5 = 4ppm
- Increase organic matter with landscaper/arborist wood chips. This will also have mild addition of potassium and phosphorus and some minors. I don't bother calculating these additions as the amounts are small
- Test your soil again to see how things are progressing, or not progressing
- For severe deficiencies, consider foliar applications. Foliar applications do not replace soil applications, especially for immobile elements. Sulfur, microbes, and other acids will release the things that get bound up
- MAP, monoammonium phosphate, is a good way to add phosphorus because it is also acidic and will help lower pH. It is high in phosphorus so it goes pretty far. Try to find complimentary additives.
2) Helena has an 8-2-12 fert that has a "high" amount of boron, at least for a fertilizer. This is how I was able to correct my boron deficiency. The person I spoke to at Helena called it the "University of Florida" mix.
3) Probably. I am using 0-0-22 for my potassium deficiency but this is also high in magnesium. If your magnesium is not high, 0-0-22 may be a good choice. If you are going to use 8-2-12 and your deficiency is small enough, you may not need to increase your 0-0-50 schedule.
4) If it fits your new fert schedule, sure
5) Add organic matter. I am using landscaper/arborist wood chips. The price is right but it does take a lot of labor to spread around the yard and it can be dusty. It also starts getting moldy fast so it may be best to hire help spreading it. Apply in a donut shape 2 - 6 inches deep, keep away from the trunk and extend out past the drip line. A truckload covers around 20 - 25 trees at 2-3 inches.
6) Avoid adding anything with calcium. The granular sulfur application will likely convert some of the existing soil calcium molecules to gypsum, helping plant uptake.
FieldLark appears to be geared to selling foliar sprays. These are generally more expensive than granular but sometime more effective. I think it is better to invest in the soil and do the hard work to correct the soil for longer term results, while also using foliars to solve immediate issues.