Just got back, wife showed me the dropped flowers, they were very small, ( they look bigger in the picture ), and from what I can tell, they do not look like they have opened. at least they sure do not look like my other pitaya flowers after they have opened.
as for the fertilizer, I have given this plant very little fertilizer, and when I did it was a 6-6-6 with "slow" release nitrogen, I still need to get up on the roof and see what else may be going on. flowers sure were pretty though. I have some 5-15-45 water soluble fertilizer, I will add some of that. this Pitaya is growing out of a 5 gallon self watering container, but I allow it to dry out between waterings.